"all warm and sexy"

I am about to pose a few questions that I think deserves much thought. Why can't there be men in the world like Joe Morelli, or Ranger (Stephanie Plum novels) ? I don't mean superheroes or masked avengers - not even an Indiana Jones, but men, good looking men who make just about every woman swoon, and not just because the are hot, but because they are driven, hard working, amazing in bed men. Are there no men like that? Why? There should be men like that, extraordinary men who have good hearts and slightly crazy minds. (When I say crazy I mean that in a non-psycho way) Why can't I have a Ranger or a Mr. Darcy? Yes I know that they are only a piece of fiction that they're not real and never will be. I'm not disputing that, what I don't understand if it's so obvious that these are men of good character and are written by women (who obviously know what women want - sorry Mel Gibson) then why aren't there men out there like them? I don't mean any disrespect towards Michael - don't get me wrong, I love him with all my heart, but still… I can't help but wonder if there are really guys out there like that. Guys who are all warm and sexy and smart and genuinely good people. If there are, where are they? I want a man who is all warm and sexy, sweet and kind, hard and muscular, smart and intelligent - who isn't insecure about his masculinity. All the men I know who are like that only appear on paper in black ink.

The more and more I read the Stephanie Plum novels or Jane Austen novels, the more and more I want what I can never attain - something that I'm not sure even exists. No not adventure, not love (I know that both of those exist) but a man who is the stuff of dreams. These men are far from perfect each with their own set of faults, but it's how they handle the rest of themselves that makes them extraordinary. Mmm…. Ranger… all warm and sexy. Oh, and all the guys in the novels all smell good. I guess having 5 out of 9 isn't half bad. I should probably consider myself lucky.